Sometimes it’s hard to admit what you’re feeling. You feel like you shouldn’t be upset when you are, or you get really super excited over the little things in life that make you smile. And no one seems to understand why you feel the way you do, But like I always advise people do not apologize for feeling the way you do.
Always say what you mean and mean what you say. Express how you feel and don't ever apologize for being real, i always say in life you will realize that people will love the idea of you but with lack the maturity to handle the reality of you. No matter how hard you try, you can never please everyone. Follow your heart, make the most of every day, and be proud of who you are. Everyday I learn new things in life, I am so grateful to the universe for taking me through different difficult paths in life, i have had to learn the act of "forgiveness" and sending out good vibes and energies , I have learnt to never feel the need to put my emotions aside to please anyone and even though it does backfire as you will come across people in this life who never like to hear the truth , still never apologize for your emotions, remember you are magic , people will hate you, rate you, shake you and break you, But how strong you stand is what makes you.
I’m here to tell you to stop apologizing for the way you feel. Why should you? Your feelings are just as valid as mine are. You have every right to feel them, so you might meet people in life who make you feel like you are wrong to be hurt, to be upset, to feel betrayed or heart broken, you will even come across Narcissistic people who are not even aware that they are that way, when you have tried to bring it to their notice nicely and they seem to believe their own lies and deceit you have to just stop trying and then focus on yourself, leave them to their selfish way of thinking ,because only people like that will see that they have truly hurt someone and still believe they are in the right, people forget that in life if you cause others to be unhappy ,you can never find happiness either.
Here are some ways to help you understand more and not let negative and narrow-minded people get to you.
CLEANSE YOURSELF AND ENVIRONMENT OF NEGATIVE ENERGIES.
Like many of you know, I am highly spiritual and I trust the vibes I get because energy never lies, and if one hair on my back stands around certain individuals it just means something is not right, however, we are not responsible for other people's actions, every action in life brings a reaction, and sometimes I have seen many people both male and female suffer at the hand of a "Narcissistic" Individual who doesn't even realise their actions hurt others deeply, now a true trait of such people is not seen by their "close friends" who may have known them over 50years ,it's only seen by those who actually live with them and see them 24/7, when you find yourself in this situation there may come a time you have to put yourself first because you have done all you can to help this individual but it is only going to put your health and mental state in jeopardy, remove yourself from such enviroment and then "Cleanse" your space, I always recommend "sage" and other spiritual herbs that aid cleansing. I am a big fan of certain incenses, and also I believe in burning certain candles with colors related to happiness and self-upliftment.
MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY AGAIN
Sometimes this may be hard for some people to achieve especially when you have recently found yourself in a "muddy" situation, you feel you can't trust life not to throw crap in your face again, you feel beat down or broken, trust me it will pass, know that whoever tries to bring you down is already below you, and never let them have the power over you or your emotions, I have been to dark places and back, I have seen "Hurt" so I speak from experience, I don't speak on matters I know nothing about but I am lucky to also be surrounded by positive and spiritually inclined souls who are very good at bringing me back to reality, and I enjoy the little things in life and I show gratitiude to the universe for letting me experience whatever it is I went through, because it only makes you stronger, so my advise to you will be to do the things that make you happy , go out and enjoy Life because life is "long" we only make it short for ourselves by wallowing in self-pity or allowing ourselves to be the "Victim" of an unapologetic individual's crime. Never forget who you truly are, sometimes we get lost when we allow other energies into our lives, we then suddenly forget the things that truly matter because we are sucked into this persons "Negative world and mental state" and we stop feeling happy because they constantly hurt us and dim our light, but it is also part of your journey, I always say the universe never puts us in situations we can't handle but when you survive a certain situation - Make Yourself Happy Again By Doing The Things You Love, Because you and you alone are responsible for your own happiness.
LEARN TO FORGIVE
We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies. I always say forgive someone even though they are not sorry, even though they believe they are not in the wrong, even though they make you feel like you are in the wrong, even though you know deep in your heart what he or she has done to you- still "Forgive" because this way you can truly move on and let life and "Karma" deal with them, remember how people treat you is their karma and how you react is yours, never feel the need to validate yourself with anyone, it is easier said than done but it is worth it, people have hurt me in this life, people who I have crossed oceans for but they would never jump puddles for me, however, I am happy I have the spirit of forgiveness, I was able to find this years ago, forgiveness does not mean you will never remember the pain or hurt you felt at the time or would still be feeling,afterall you are having a human experience, but it just means that pain has no power over you anymore, Remember the heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.
Need I say more? "LOVE YOURSELF"
You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection”
– Buddha
Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it, Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life, but define yourself,Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one,If only you could sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person so always try to leave a footprints on peoples heart, so when you leave they know the joy,love,happiness and good things you brought into their lives and one day they will realize they are the true reason they have lost something good, but on the other hand you will still be glowing with love that you carry deep within you, Love yourself everyday, tell yourself positive things and Lastly always show love to all you meet and if they ever throw it back in your face, it's okay you have done your job now let the Universe do the rest.
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